Lindsay Davenport Says You Have to 'Get Creative' When Kids Want to Quit a Sport

"[My mom said], 'No, you find a different sport then,' and I was like, 'Okay, tennis isn't so bad,' " the former Olympian recalls

On the latest episode of PEOPLE’s Mom Talk, 1996 Atlanta Games tennis champ Lindsay Davenport admits her parents had to start her early to make the sport a foundation of her life.

“Here I was, at 6 … to get me out of the house, my mom put me at a local club to start playing tennis, and I loved it so much,” says Davenport, who’s now 40 and a mother of four. “I would go and play and I’d come home and hit against the garage and they’d yell at me to stop [because] it was too loud. Then my sisters would yell at me.

“I always feel so lucky because [being in tennis] just came by chance, and I got to find my true passion in life,” she adds.

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Though Davenport, who was inducted into the International Tennis Hall of Fame in 2014, admits being dedicated to one sport is important for serious competitors because “There’s just such a small percentage of athletes that make it to the highest level,” she’s still trying to keep her own children well-rounded.

One small problem? It seems like her oldest is already fine with specializing and not looking back.

“My 9-year-old plays tennis every day for many hours, but each season I make him do one team sport,” Davenport explains. “But he fights me on it. He doesn’t want to do it — he just wants to play tennis.

“But I’m not giving in yet,” she clarifies, laughing.

“You have to get creative with that,” Davenport tells water-polo player Ashleigh Johnson‘s mom Donna of the thought process behind encouraging kids to continue their involvement with a sport beyond the initial interest.

She also explains that just because she stuck with tennis doesn’t mean it was a natural thing to do — and that her own mom found a clever way around her daughter’s (temporary) rebellion.

“I remember my mom, one time … I said I wanted to quit,” says Davenport. “I was 14, probably top three or four in the nation. And [my mom was] like, ‘Okay, well then, tomorrow we’re going to water polo or basketball or [something else]. You’ve gotta do a sport.’

“I was like, ‘Well, no, no, I just want to stay home! I just want to [be] with my friends!’ ” she continues. “She was like, ‘No, you find a different sport then,’ and I was like, ‘Okay, tennis isn’t so bad.’ ”

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